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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Too many choices

NYC has so many choices. And, I never thought that would be one of the hardest adjustments upon reentry. After all, choice is what I missed so much while abroad. Food choices, exercise choices, choices in Duane Reade.

Yesterday, I set out to find a gym that will do month-to-month and to get a cell phone. While I didn’t actually accomplish either, I did get info on all my choices.  I also spent $87 in the drugstore on magazines, conditioner, a new electronic toothbrush and a few other things I have already forgotten. Hoping today will be better for actually getting things done.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Long overdue: Kindness of strangers

Getting home went better than I could have expected. I was pretty nervous about getting home with two casts, mostly because I felt so dependant on other people. But despite my worry, everyone was really helpful.

In Kigali, I was picked up in a wheelchair in the cafe area because there is no handicapped access inside. The nice man wheeled me around the parking lot and through the door used for food trucks etc. He wheeled me to the stairs of the plane (no jetways here) and gave me a serious headstart up the stairs. In Addis, I got myself down the stairs of the plane and was met by a man with a wheelchair for me. A very nice missionary based in Niger carried my bag and walked with us to the gate, making sure I was all set before going off to his own flight. The only minor hiccup came as I deplaned in Washington DC. Right before we landed, I double checked with the stewardess to make sure my transport was all set. She confirmed, and then as we landed, a woman came onboard to get me. But, as I was waiting for a kind soul to get my bag from the overhead compartment, an old lady stole my wheelchair! I managed to get another one and soon was in the arms of my loving mom!

I got back last Friday and by Tuesday I was cast free. The doctor I saw was chocked beyond belief that I had been casted for 2 sprains.  “I mean, not for twenty years has this been the treatment” When I pointed out that they don’t have air casts in Rwanda, he seemed a little sheepish and gave some lip service to the technology available in the states. All this while writing on a tablet computer that send all prescriptions and other info  straight to the front desk instantaneously. Even though the casts came right off, the pain stuck around so I spent most of last week laying in bed resting and abusing Advil and the kindness of my mom. I also managed a record number of visits from my kind Brother and Sister-in-law and my superhero nephews.

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Wreaking havoc behind Nonna’s favorite piece of art

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Behold mighty Thor and his hammer!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Trip home...

I have stories to tell about getting home but I have doctors to see, TV to watch and haven't managed to get the stories down yet... coming though. Stay tuned.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

ES Students


Here is an album of my students and some teachers at my school. Also some random pics from friends and yoga only hours before I lost the use of my legs :)

ES Students


Here is an album of my students and some teachers at my school. Also some random pics from friends and yoga only hours before I lost the use of my legs :)

Thank you friends

I will keep this short so you don’t vomit from the saccharine but I just wanted to say thanks to each and every member of WorldTeach Rwanda 2010. In my wildest dreams (and my dreams are pretty wild) I never could have imagined such a diverse, intelligent, generous, inspiring, and caring bunch of freaks. Oh, and most of you are pretty funny too. I feel beyond blessed and lucky to have been thrown to together with y’all for the past 9 months. What I really want to say is….

XOXO

J

Thank you friends

I will keep this short so you don’t vomit from the saccharine but I just wanted to say thanks to each and every member of WorldTeach Rwanda 2010. In my wildest dreams (and my dreams are pretty wild) I never could have imagined such a diverse, intelligent, generous, inspiring, and caring bunch of freaks. Oh, and most of you are pretty funny too. I feel beyond blessed and lucky to have been thrown to together with y’all for the past 9 months. What I really want to say is….

XOXO

J

Ko Skola

My friends Kelly Jo and Camble are getting married and these crazy fools don’t want anything from Crate and Barrel! I always knew they were generous souls, especially after ALL of their help when I crippled myself, but this is beyond the pale.  They want to help kids go to school instead of acquiring money and goods for themselves. I know its un-American but please check out their site. Even if you are not in a position to give, maybe you can pass it along to your friends and family to help get the word out.

From The Bride:

Hi everyone! We hope you're all doing wonderfully! :) As some of you know, Camble and I are getting married in November 2010. (next month! :). In lieu of wedding gifts, we would like to raise money to sponsor Namibian children to go to school. The money raised will go towards school fees, books, uniforms, supplies, etc. We so appreciate any way you can help out! :) You can visit our donation webpage atwww.giveforward.com/ko-skola Camble is Namibian and Kelly Jo lived in Namibia in 2009. We are returning there this November (2010) and will be married! We are very excited to sponsor the children in school and already have a few schools in mind that we would like to help. We will personally visit the schools and ensure that the money goes directly to the children :)

We will also be tracking the progress on our blog: http://koskola.blogspot.com/ "Ko Skola" is Oshivambo for "To School"...to learn more about Namibia and its schools, you can visit the following websites: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Namibiahttps://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/wa.html http://www.nied.edu.na/Bep/en-background.htm Thanks again for your time, love and support! :) We can't imagine a better way to celebrate our commitment to eachother than through helping a community so close to our hearts! Love, Camble and Kelly Jo

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Murakoze Inshuti

My friends were totes supportive and turned out for a send off dinner. Susan and KJ gave toasts, everyone had a good time, and I cried. The full album is on Facebook but here are some highlights.

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Inshuti!

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Saint KJamble

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Zach tests the marker before signing

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Me and my legendary southern mate. Good times and good crepes. And Hewsan

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Boys just wanna have fun

Monday, October 4, 2010

Peel me a grape bwana

This goes out to my loving Mother Debbie the Doo. Watch out..your Angel  is coming home.

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Sunday, October 3, 2010

Sink pasta party

Susan lives in St. Paul’s hostel and has no kitchen or hot plate. she has no perfected the art of “Sink Pasta” which started as angel hair pasta cooked in hot water from shower. Nouvelle Vache  cheese was the next step. Now, after the addition of an electric kettle, butter, salt, pepper, and two types of cheese, it is a work of culinary artistry.

Susan threw a beautiful luncheon, she bought drinks, Pringles, chocolate, grapes, bowls, and silverware  for all attendees!

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Flowers from a concussed Mitesh!

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Susan hard at work 

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  Joco inspects a Pringle

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Inshuti! (Although Kim says  it’s spelled Incuti)

Saturday, October 2, 2010

So long, farewell

Based on the recommendations of my field director, family, and self, I am returning to the US early. Once it became clear that I am unable to teach (and next week is the last week of teaching anyway) I had to decide if laying in a hostel bed for 3 weeks was worth it. Plus, the very idea of trying to navigate the dirt and rock roads of Nyanza was giving me panic attacks. In the words of Joco “Well, that’s not even an option.” KJ was also clear that me being alone in my town made her uncomfortable and the home office had suggested I return to the US. The general consensus that flying with casts and wheelchairs etc would in fact be easier (sympathy!!) than traveling by myself on freshly freed feet.

So exactly 22 days early, I will return to the Good Ol’ USA.  I leave next Thursday and will arrive in D.C. on Friday. As sad as I am to miss the last few weeks, I am totally comfortable with my decision. Navigating with crutches on uneven dirt roads is difficult with 2 hurt limbs and being a prisoner in a hostel isn’t my idea of a great finish to the year. At least at home I can deliver in good food and have my slave…ooops I mean mom…wait on me.

I will be forever thankful and grateful for the friends I made here. A tight community apparently only takes 9 months to solidify. I am so lucky to have been placed in this group. Also, this experience would have been entirely different without my wonderful Field Director Kelly Jo. (What would KJ do? is a debbie doo and jane phrase).

This year has been difficult sometimes and painful at others (like now) but always absurdly fun. I experienced so many things I never could have imagined in my wildest dreams. I am absolutely glad I did it. To quote John Stanlake “It’s a legend.”

In other news…I will be in New York City recuperating at the Westwind and accepting sympathy and visitors.

XOXO

J

Friday, October 1, 2010

Dr. Butera

Dr. Butera was totes charming and competent. He was dressed in full army fatigues with BUTERA over his right breast and RDF over the left.  He asked permission to take off my casts and then asked before he touched my legs, and said sorry every time I gasped. Before I was sent off to the POP (Plaster of Paris) room, he took down a chart, branded by Celebrex, off the wall and showed us the ligaments of each side of the ankle and what usually happened and what he thought had had happened.  He examined the x-rays (and could not understand why Nyanza had not done both feet) and decided there was no break.

After the old casts were off and he examined me, he explained each step of the way how everything was connected and why the pain was so bad one place but the bottom of the foot was fine. He said “You are a beautiful young girl and we will get you walking again” and “How many years young are you?”  It was the first time in Rwanda that a man had used the word beautiful in reference to me without it feeling creepy at all. Just very nice.

The man who put the new casts on, Fabien, was also excellent. He had to position my legs so the full casts could be properly wrapped. I tried not to cry out but I was wincing. He went on a long soliloquy about Rwanda and the problems and education. Not only was he extremely interesting, at the end, he winked at me and said “Talking helped” making it clear his talking had been one long distraction.

Despite the excellent care and bedside manner, the message was clear. When I twisted my ankles, the ligaments tore (or have little tears) and must be immobilized for three weeks. Otherwise, Dr Butera says they will heal improperly.  He also said the full plaster casts (old ones were plaster at back and gauze wrapped in front) will lessen the pain because the ankles cannot move. Dr. Butera said “Oh no, you are not a prisoner, if you have a car, your friends can drive you around town. You can go to the bathroom. But no pressure on the legs for 3 weeks.” But no teaching, no hobbling around uneven roads. I am currently figuring out my plan for the next few weeks.

Having my legs wrapped in concrete boots is a bit hot but I think it helps with the pain as my ankles are in fact quite immobile. Today was a bit rough as we ventured out to our favorite cofee shop and internet cafe. Only downside was stairs to the bathroom. So I am back in bed and after dinner my friends are going to come and amuse me. I have said it before and will say it again, I am blessed beyond belief to be grouped with this particular bunch. Rockstars each and every one.

Smile when there are clouds in the sky

check back I will be updating as more people sign

 

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